I followed the directions that were posted earlier and the pages are definitely loading slower, but cannot understand why it would slow them down. http://www.amarasoftware.com/flash-problem.htm
Interesting, did you include the .js code right on the page or reference is exactly as it shows?
I think Adobe release another fix for the click to activate thing. I'd check out their web site to see what they say. I'd do it for you but I need to eat dinner and go to bed...if you don't mind waiting until the morning I can look into it more.